Victoria Milan is a perfect dating site for those looking to add some excitement to their love life outside of their primary relationships. It's gained quite the reputation for being a discreet and safe space to explore extramarital affairs.

Launched in 2010, the site's user-friendly interface makes it easy to create a profile, upload photos, and browse other users' profiles for free. However, if you want to send messages, chat with other users, or use advanced search filters, you'll need to pay for a premium membership.

What really makes Victoria Milan stand out is some of its privacy features which include the "panic button" and "AnonymousBlur". Overall, Victoria Milan seems to be a great option for people who are looking for something casual and want a safe and discreet environment to do so. So, let’s get into the finer details!

Pros & Cons


  • A discretion-oriented platform, making it perfect for secret extramarital affairs.
  • Low number of fake profiles.
  • Very helpful and responsive support team.
  • Like-minded users looking for affairs.
  • Regular discounts and promo codes.


  • You have to be a paid member to send and read messages.
  • Comparatively more expensive than other dating sites.
  • The site can be slow and rather wonky to log in and out of.
  • Doesn't automatically log you out (this can be changed in “Settings”).
Victoria Milan married and attached dating website's home page

What Type Of Dating Site Is Victoria Milan?

  • Extramarital Affairs
  • Discreet Relationships
  • Casual Encounters

Who Is Victoria Milan For?

  • Straight
  • Gay
  • Lesbian
  • Bi
  • Married/Engaged

Stats & Infographics

Male - Female Ratio

Victoria Milan dating sites statistics and infographics demonstrating the ratio of men to women

Age Demographics

Age demographics for the dating site Victoria Milan

Country Distribution

VictoriaMilan dating site stats and infographics country distribution

The site clearly advertises a male-to-female ratio of 53% to 47%, but our research has shown that it is slanted just a bit more to the side of the men, so expect to find more men than women here. Not a big issue, but always good to know.

Registration Process

The Victoria Milan sign-up process is rather straightforward, just as most other sites seem to be these days. To start, simply go to and click on the purple "See Your Matches" button.

From there, you will be asked the following pieces of information:

  • Your gender
  • Your marital status
  • Whether you are interested in meeting men, women, or both
  • A valid email address
  • Whether or not to receive members-only emails
  • A reCAPTCHA to show you aren't a robot
  • A username
  • A password
  • Your date of birth

The process continues by selecting if you are looking for something short term, long term, 'whatever excites me', or if you are just curious and looking around. Then select from a list of things that turn you on (you'll need to choose at least three from the given options). You'll now be asked to describe your appearance. This goes from your height, weight, body type, hair, eyes, and overall looks. These pieces of information will be used when other members search for someone to connect with, so make sure to be accurate here.

The second-to-last step will be to select your city of residence, which is followed by confirming your email address. To complete the VictoriaMilan sign-up, you'll have to confirm your email before you are allowed access to the main site. Be sure to check your spam folder, just in case.

Note: It is sometimes possible to skip the email verification process by simply clicking the back button on your web browser.

You will now be able to browse the site, freely view and like members' profiles, and update yours. You should be getting a prompt that will ask you to add a profile photo, and while you are at it, you can add your bio and tagline, too. This is always good to fill in if you actually want to catch anyone's interest. It's also the perfect time to upgrade to a premium membership if you wish to message anyone else.

App & Mobile Compatibility

The VictoriaMilan dating app can either be downloaded from the Apple App Store or the Google Play Store and is even available on other app stores, like APK Pure. The app shares almost all the same features as the desktop version.

On the Victoria Milan app, you will not, however, have the panic button or video chat features as you do on the Victoria Milan dating site. So make sure to have a backup exit strategy ready just in case you need it.

The app isn't the quickest bit of tech either, and its slow software can be a bit of a drag at times, which might negate its mobile convenience. But the app does make it super easy to contact customer services in a chat format. So, if you need that assistance, the app might be a good choice.

Signing on via a mobile browser gives members a similar experience as the app, but without the clunky speed issues, and you still get all the great anonymity features. The site is unfortunately not optimized for use on all non-desktop screens, and you might have some issues logging in on a tablet device.

Men Vs Women

The overall experience on the VictoriaMilan dating site is pretty much the same for both men and women. Both need to go through the same sign-up process and are required to have a legitimate email address to create a profile and get access to the same features.

The biggest difference, according to more than just one other VictoriaMilan review, is what the premium memberships on Victoria Milan cost. The fairer sex is supposed to get premium access for free and should be able to read and send a message at no cost to them. For everyone else, a premium package is supposed to be a must-have if they want to use the site to its full capacity.

Well, from our rather in-depth personal experience of using the site for a few days, this is not true. Women will unfortunately also need to put their credit card where their mouth is to use VictoriaMilan. Sorry, ladies, no freebies here.


Anonymity feature being one of the top features of the dating sites Victoria MilanAnonymity Features

A feature on the dating website Victoria Milan that provides users the choice to post a photo or remain anonymous

VictoriaMilan understands its members' need for discretion and, therefore, has multiple features to aid in this. First, there is the Panic Button that removes all traces from your browser should your significant other come into the room. When pressed, it takes you to a new webpage, just in case someone is snooping around. Personally, we were redirected to YouTube. But we are sure your wife would much rather think you are watching videos of people falling over instead of chatting with a few sexy minxes.

The site also uses face-blurring technology as a standard option to ensure your spouse or any of her friends won't be finding out that you have been a naughty boy on here. Having limited free access also aids to help to keep things anonymous. The roadblock of the steep price to merely send a 'Hi' often disheartens anyone with malicious intent.

On top of that, VictoriaMilan guarantees that its name will never appear on any of your bank or card statements. The site utilizes an encrypted system to ensure your credit card details stay completely confidential. The same system is also responsible for guaranteeing that your statements will reflect frequently changing merchants with names that bear no resemblance to VictoriaMilan. This is all to ensure that you can have some extramarital fun without the unnecessary stress of getting caught.

Advanced searches for the top features on the dating site Victoria MilanAdvanced Searches

The Victoria Milan dating site's advanced search and filter options are displayed on the website page.

With the search function, you can narrow down the members that fit your specific criteria. A basic search will include their location, how far away from you they are, age, height, weight if they have photos, and whether they are online now. But the more in-depth search is where you can be even more nit-picky.

To go to the advanced search, simply go to the 'Search' bar at the top of the screen, then select 'More Criteria'. From there, you can select different criteria to add to your basic search. Narrow down on anything from the color of their eyes or hair and even their drinking and smoking habits. If their turn-ons or relationship status is more important to you, then you can select this, too. Practically any bit of information that gets submitted during the Victoria Milan sign-in process or gets added to someone's profile can be used to narrow down your perfect partner.

Victoria Milan - dating site's icon for private photo galleries featurePrivate Photo Galleries

Your private gallery is where you can add photos that are a bit more risqué than your public images. These are just to show a bit more of who you really are. If you have a naughty side, this is where you can show it off. The best part is that you get to choose who sees the photos in your private gallery.

One of the most fun ways to communicate on VictoriaMilan is to send someone you fancy a key to your private gallery. Only users whom you have sent a key can unlock access to your private photos. So be careful to only send keys to people you want to show a bit more to and you can trust. Remember to always keep discretion in mind when deciding your level of anonymity with anyone online.

Victoria Milan - dating site's icon for its virtual gifts featureVirtual Gifts

The Victoria Milan dating site virtual gift feature is displayed on the website page

On top of being able to send messages, likes, and winks, you will also have the option to send Virtual Gifts to anyone who catches your eye. These are essential images of romantic gestures which range from the romantic to the naughty. Options for Virtual Gifts can be a rose, a massage, a diamond ring, handcuffs, or a chocolate-covered strawberry, to name but a few.

These do cost credits (which cost real money) to send, and the prices for each gift can range from 15 to 50 credits. You will also have to be a premium member to send these to someone else, even though other VictoriaMilan reviews say otherwise. The only way you'll be able to get a few free credits is to verify your account. This will reward you with 150 free credits. Along with each virtual gift you send, you can also send along a short text message of up to 100 characters attached.

Victoria Milan - dating site's icon for private photo galleries featureBlog

The Victoria Milan dating site blog feature is displayed on the website page

Not only is Victoria Milan a great dating site for married folk who are looking for some extra fun, but the site also has a pretty decent blog. As you might expect, the blog covers everything that a married couple would need to know. Blog posts mostly fit into the category of 'affair & infidelity' and cover a wide range of topics. Did you know there are 7 types of affairs? Neither did we, but it certainly was an interesting read.

Not only is the blog filled with an abundance of knowledge for anyone cheating in a marriage, but there are also great reviews on the best dating apps and sites to use, how to use Tinder if you are married, and informational pieces specificity on infidelity, hookups, and sugar mommies. Most men might find it useful to read the article covering menopause and how it affects women and can result in affairs. The blog can be accessed from any page on by clicking 'BLOG' on the menu bar at the top of the page.

Offers, Prices & Costs

Premium Subscription Packages

VictoriaMilam is a freemium service where basic access and a very limited experience of the site is free. Full access to all the site's features, most importantly sending and reading messages, is limited only to those who are premium members. While other Victoria Milan reviews suggest that women get to use the site completely for free, we did not find this to be true when we created a female account.

While it may seem like there are different packages, the memberships are only based on length of time. The Premium Silver and Premium Diamond packages only differ in how long the membership lasts, but both allow the same perks. Choosing a longer package will save on the overall monthly cost, so be sure to choose your package wisely. Each package will also automatically renew after its length of time has expired, and auto-renewal needs to be manually turned off in your settings if you choose to cancel your subscription. If you have a Victoria Milan promo code, you can use that to get a discount.

Prices & Costs

The premium subscription prices and packages of the adult dating site Victoria Milan.
  • 1 month "Premium Silver": €49.99
  • 3 months "Premium Gold": €23.99/month
  • 6 months "Premium Platinum": €19.99/month
  • 12 months "Premium Diamond": €14.99/month

Perks Included

  • Unlimited chat
  • See who liked you
  • See who viewed you
  • Ask for private photos
  • Send gifts (with credits)
  • Unlimited likes
  • See the winks

*The 12-month subscription also comes with 1,000 credits.

NOTE: The 1 month Premium Silver subscription is not always available. And the prices seem to change rather frequently. When we first signed on, the cost was almost half compared to our last day on the site - which was when the packages reflected the numbers shown above.

Premium Plus Offer

The Premium Plus offer is an extra add-on that allows you to sponsor all non-paying members to read and send you messages. The duration of the Premium Plus offer will be the same length of time as your Premium Subscription package mentioned above. To select this feature, simply tick the 'Premium Plus' box underneath your membership package selection in the checkout. This offer will be an extra €29.99 on top of your main Membership cost, but your first month will be free.

Prices & Costs

  • €29.99 per month (the first month is free)

Perks Included

  • Non-paying members can read and send you messages
  • Non-paying members can see your full profile
  • 2x your popularity

Safety & Security

Overall Security

Victoria Milan makes their money from providing discretion, so you know they take their privacy very seriously. Besides having the FaceBlur and Panic Button features, a lot also happens behind the scenes. The website functions on Amazon web services, using Norton by Symantec along with an SSL Trust, and even uses a system that is powered by 256-bit encryption.

You won't have to worry about your bank statements either because 'VictoriaMilan' will never appear anywhere on your credit card or bank statements. One of the only ways you might get caught is if you don't delete your web history. So, we suggest that you use a private browser or go into incognito mode whenever you sign on.

Fake Profiles

VictoriaMilan knows that its members require the utmost safety when online, and the site does all it can to prevent fake profiles from popping up. Married individuals are a perfect target for anyone with nefarious intentions, but you should rest assured that Victoria Milan keeps them at bay as best they can.

The site has both automated and man-driven anti-scammer methods active to prevent fake profiles from slipping through. They also encourage users not to hesitate to report any possible fraudulent profiles for further investigation and possible termination.

We are also happy to say that in no way does it seem as if the site is for 'entertainment purposes only' like you would find on other less-reputable dating sites. After scrutinizing the Terms of Service in quite some depth, we found nothing that made us feel uneasy or indicated that you would ever be talking to any company-created profiles that are only there to keep you talking. Nope, not here.

After multiple days of using the site, our experience has also been rather realistic. We were not inundated with a ton of messages from overly-interested members (this is always a red flag to look out for), and we were only contacted by a few local legitimate-looking users.

Personal Safety

Victoria Milan has a warning system in place to guide its members to stay on the right path when it comes to the site's policies. These moderation policies are put in place to ensure everyone has a safe and secure environment in which they can have some extramarital fun. The policies in question are mostly to stop any form of harassment.

Any communication that is found to be rude, aggressive, demeaning, and includes curse words or highly explicit sexual comments will receive a warning. The site has moderators who monitor to make sure their policies are being followed at all times, but you can also report any users if you feel the need. Each warning received results in a 24-hour lockdown of your profile, and on the third warning, your profile is permanently deleted.

Messages may also be moderated for unlawful, immoral, harmful, threatening, or abusive language. Any of these unacceptable behaviors will result in an immediate deletion of a user's profile. These are all a direct breach of the site's terms and conditions. While some might feel it is an intrusion to have your messages moderated, the only purpose behind it is to ensure the personal safety of all the site's members.


While it might not be for everyone, if having an affair is something you want to do, and you wish to do it in complete privacy, then a platform like Victoria Milan can certainly help. The site is known for creating a safe and discreet environment for its members. Its multiple privacy methods, like the site encryption, the FaceBlur, and Panic button features to name a few, make it perfect for anyone looking to have a discreet experience with like-minded people.

The site's moderators and support team also make a continuous effort to ensure you won't have to worry about dealing with fake profiles or any kind of harassment online. Your overall experience will, however, depend on your budget and on how much time you plan to invest in making a decent connection. Discreet environments like these come with their own pros, cons, and rules to follow, so make sure this lifestyle is for you before you jump right in. But from what we've seen, the VictoriaMilan dating experience is one of a kind, so why not give it a go for yourself?


  • To save some money, ditch the Virtual Gifts and just send photos instead.
  • Try out a 1-month membership to see if VictoriaMilan is for you, and only then sign up for one of the longer memberships.
  • Sign up for their members-only emails. They have regular discounts and Victoria Milan Coupons that are exclusively sent via email.
  • Turn the auto login function off to make sure no one accidentally stumbles on your profile.
  • Edit your email notifications to receive only the bare minimum, or you might get absolutely inundated.


What Is Victoria Milan?

Victoria Milan is a dating site that gives anyone looking for discretion in finding an extramarital affair a safe and secure space to do so.

How Can I Upgrade My Victoria Milan Account?

Sign in to your Victoria Milan account, then follow these steps:

  1. Click on “Settings” in the menu bar on the left.
  2. Go to "My Membership" and click "Upgrade Now".
  3. Select a Membership from the given options.
  4. Enter your card details and click "Confirm Payment."

Is Victoria Milan Legit?

Yes, it is. From our personal experience while using the site, along with extensive research, we can say that VictoriaMilan is one of the good ones. You can expect to find real people with a real interest in having a naughty extramarital dalliance. The cherry on top is the very supportive and helpful VictoriaMilan support team and moderators who ensure a safe and fun experience.

What Are The Benefits Of The Premium Plus Membership?

If you have noticed and messaged anyone who has not been able to communicate a reply to you, they might not have upgraded their account yet. By choosing to purchase the Premium Plus membership, all free members will be able to chat with you as well.

Is Victoria Milan Worth It?

Most definitely. If you are serious about having some extramarital fun but aren't sure where to go, then VictoriaMilan should be your first step. It's normal to be a bit nervous, but you can rest assured that you will be in safe hands on VictoriaMilan.

What About Fake Profiles?

The Victoria Milan site has automated as well as man-driven anti-scam methods active to prevent fake accounts from getting very far at all. If you ever suspect someone, their profile can easily be reported for further investigation.

How Can I Report A Fake Profile?

Should a suspected fake profile be unintentionally ignored by the site's methods of detection, you can report said user for investigation and possible termination.

  1. Go to the user's profile.
  2. Hover over the ellipses on the far right to open the user menu.
  3. Click 'report user'

*Alternatively, you can email the site's support team directly.

How Can I Change My Username?

You are not able to do it manually, but VictoriaMilan's support team is more than happy to help. All you need to do is send their support team a message with your new username, and they will gladly change it for you.

How Can I Get In Touch With The Victoria Milan Support Team?

There are a few ways to get in touch with support:

  • Go to the help center and click "Submit request" in the upper right corner.
  • Via email at
  • Start a chat with them directly on the 'Help' widget on the left side of the page when you've just logged in.

Where Can I Get A Victoria Milan Code For A Discount?

By signing up to the members-only email list, you will be sent a VictoriaMilan Bonus Code when they have these discounts on offer. These are only for Victoria Milan members on the email list, but they do regularly have site-wide discounts on certain premium packages as well.